Independence Day will soon be upon us and with the coronavirus pandemic behind us now. We can all start having some fun this July 4th. As I recall My wife Donna and I raised eight very active children, with that came the challenge of keeping them fed and entertained (on the cheap).

I'll share with you some of the things that became Fernandez family traditions and or favorites that are either easy, cheap, or free. To this day the older kids say those were the most fun times ever, and I totally agree.

First off the Freedom Festival in downtown Abilene on July 3rd, is free of charge for everyone. Just look up all the activities that are being offered in the downtown Abilene Freedom Festival.

What follows next are just some ideas that the kids and I remember as being the most fun, entertaining, and very Independence Day inspired. I hope you get as much enjoyment as we did. Here goes:

1st Fly the Flag

Photo by: Rudy Fernandez

Proudly display your flag, we fly the flags our family members have served under. We make sure they're worthy of flying. Not too faded, not too tattered, and not torn. If your flag has seen better days, please retire it properly by contacting the Boy Scouts, Lions Club, or the American Legion.

2nd Listen to Patriotic Music

Boston Pops Facebook photo

One thing I'm very guilty of is that I start playing patriotic music on the Fourth of July from the minute I get up. Nothing screams Independence Day like Lee Greenwood and the Boston Pops. If you'll start the day with Lee or the Boston Pops patriotic medley of songs, you'll feel a more genuine sense of patriotic pride. Just try it, my kids will tell you they were inspired to get up and get ready for the day.

3rd Bake Something Patriotic

Photo by: Photo by John Moore/Getty Images

Baking a red, white, and blue flag cake is my daughter Branddy's patriotic idea. She's been baking a 9 by 13-inch cake and simply covered it with whipped cream. She then arranges blueberries and strawberries to create her patriotic-themed cake. You should see the kid's eyes when the cake comes out and is ready to be served after dinner.

4th Barbecuing in the Back Yard

Brandon Bourdages

Barbecuing is my domain. I learned at an early age, the best way to please my family is with hot dogs, hamburgers, steaks, and ribs for the boys, chicken for the girls, and plenty of grilled seasonal veggies like corn on the cob, jalapeno poppers, squash and smoked baked potatoes (my favorite veggie). At least I know I'll hear peace and quiet while the children devour all of "dad's" awesome creations.

5th Watching a Fourth of July Parade

Photo by: Yobro10

Abilene is very fortunate to have several fun neighborhood parades. Some of the ones I recall are on Amarillo Street, Jeannette Street, Button Willow Parkway, and Mesquite Forrest neighborhoods. Luckily This year's Freedom Festival features a parade in downtown Abilene. Take in the sights and sounds and enjoy the Abilene Freedom Festival and parade downtown.

6th Make Your Own Homemade Ice Cream

Photo by: pamela_d_mcadams

We always have leftover strawberries and/or blueberries from the cake-making ceremony earlier in the day. What berries are left ended up in the ice cream maker. Here's the Fernandez family "super-easy" recipe for fresh berries ice cream, enjoy!
Ingredients:
2 cups whole milk
2 cups heavy cream
1 cup white sugar
1/4 teaspoon salt
2 teaspoons Mexican vanilla extract
2 cups chopped or mashed fresh strawberries (and/or other berries)
In a bowl big enough to accommodate all the ingredients, mix the milk, sugar, vanilla, cream, salt, and berries. Pour the mixture into the ice cream maker's freezer bowl and start cranking and/or turn on the ice cream maker (following manufacturer's directions). Enjoy!

7th Watch a Fireworks Display

Photo by: iStock

At the end of a very busy Fourth of July, gather up your flags, then go watch a fireworks show. Abilene will have fireworks this year at the Abilene Freedom Festival at the Taylor County Expo Center. Remember to take your lawn chairs, picnic blanket, and your camera, then share your pictures with us on our KEAN-105 Facebook page.

Finally, as my kids were growing up I made it a point to celebrate Independence Day in a big way because our family has had so many relatives that have given their all to defend the freedoms we enjoy today. I've made a commitment to showing our kids and grandkids what "Independence Day" is all about. Happy fourth y'all.

Get our free mobile app

LOOK: Here are the best small towns to live in across America